Muscles are gross and unattractive to me.?

I know that so many woman love muscular men. Personally i think those men spend to much time on their outer appearance. it kind of annoys me when muscular men try to empress me with their arms, and think that they are so much better than the man that i am currently with. Big arms remind me of pythons. i like snakes but i do not want to be reminded of one when im with a man. i do not mind some muscle definitional because it shows that a man is healthy. Im more into skinny guys though. i know woman think they are weak, but they treat me better, and they are more sensitive. Im not even turned off by a chubby guy. some are cute. plus they are more comfy to cuddle with. it's the same with woman. I have gotten so sick of how buff guys treat me. They seem like they are more likely to cheat. I know that seems stereotypical, but my friend love guys with muscles, and she is always getting cheated on. I love it when men respect me. I guess i love to dominate to. tough guys are to dominating.